The fundamentals of male and female behaviors/ they are not, "what you think". They are, what you believe is real.

The function of every behavior is: to provide or create an order for the existence of want/ or desire to be fulfilled. Or more simply, the basis in fact for all human behaviors is the expressions that precede an anticipated experience. Be it for good or bad. Thereby, because the purpose is to produce or deny what you believe will be found through the order chosen: the reality of your life becomes a definition by which belief is exchanged for truth. Or the truth orchestrates an order that becomes the basis of your life.
The question recognized by belief is: what do you want, or desire life, and your future to be? The critical answer in time results in the extrapolation of what brings the most value, to your life? For most that answer will be sex, but not as the physical reality/ rather as the mental possibility of what true desire, and honest relationships can or could be, when governed entirely by love. Want at the opposite end of that definition simply uses the body for lust: "You are unimportant/ all I want is the trophy of your body, the abuse which proves power over you, or the reality of your slavery to me".
Sexual existence is: a reality of self, that consumes time to prove, there is more to me, than just this body or mind. Or more clearly: the existence of personal experience as an opportunity to control definitions which cannot be created unless another body is present, and participating; whether willing or not. Sexual reality is: the consequence of life being used or abused; or loved/ for the singular expression, "I want, the trophies which prove I have power". Power is manipulation or control, pride decides "I won or I lost". In contrast; the alternative is, I desire the moments captured, without this world (the influence of people beyond myself) inside. Simply my life and yours sheltered in a purpose without gain or rules to seek each other as life. To accomplish that, you must displace that influence of "other people", by entering into the experience of love, which then governs everything to be, or not to be in the expressions of "us". To gain what is beyond simply self: that reality of us, must control safely, the heart that we must then share.
Want is abandoned/ and we turn only to life.
The question of life then identifies the elemental essence of what does provide the rhythms that conceive of everything we can or could be! We begin that discussion with the simple words: ONLY TRUTH can enter love/ only trust can control it. Thereby everything possible is defined and created by truth, love, or trust. To understand the foundations required to produce these elements of life in time, the functional wisdom of seeking soul is required. Soul means: to accept the foundation or fundamentals called life; thereby to participate in miracles, and more. Soul decides, if you can or cannot accept the reality of life before you, as love declares it to be: life, body, time, everything of creation itself, is a miracle and you are graciously allowed, "to touch and experience, what no human being can create". This is a level of respect without the consequence of a measurement/ but it cannot exist unless the realities of trust, truth, and love bring it to life, as a description of your own soul.
The question of time orchestrates our ability to seek and define the relationships we share as living in this world, as survival, and as blessed to be alive. The element of trust, is a question that you cannot own, it is not yours to take or control. Rather trust is the decision to let the values we share decide our destiny, by living within their truth. Love is the essence of everything happy, the elemental joy of life itself, passing through the gate that leads us into the definitions of caring, sharing, and being alive. Without these no one is happy; even if they finally find contentment within their pride or want achieved. Love is alive only, when you have learned what the value called truth brings to the essence of our existence. Truth is, the creation of elemental order within us, as we seek a relationship with life itself. Truth cannot be bought or sold, there is no bribe, there is no plea or begging that can change it. Truth is the substance that expands our world, and ourselves, beyond the simple substrates of measurement, to give us "a height or depth" to our experience in life. Time measures in distance, but life is the expression of MUCH MORE than that. Thought consists of truth modified, as a decision within which we can and do participate. Thought constructs the laws of life, it is the fuel that lets us go; thereby a foundation that cannot be destroyed without destroying ourselves. Want does not exist in thought/ rather it pretends, thereby creating lies. Pride is an enemy of thought, because truth does not matter.
Rhythms are the dimensional existence of time expanded/ the quantitative element that recognizes we are more than simply self. Rhythms fundamentally arise as our description of ourselves, begins to share the concept of what we can create when thought lives in us. Thought is the basis of all dimensional existence/ but rhythm shares the soul, as we do travel beyond ourselves, to the limits of what we can or could be; as our ability to create does allow. Every dimension is the distance explained by our own heartbeat/ what lives or what dies, because we chose. Sexual expression constructs a bridge between male and female, that either allows the exchange of hope, happiness, love, trust, and truth/ or denies that passage, because the purpose of one or both as chosen is only lust, power, use, or abuse. What you believe sex can be, identifies the quest within you. If it is not for the purity of love without boundaries, because trust and truth have made this possible. Then it is for little more than chemicals and the power to pretend "I win".
Sexual realities are not toys. They present the fundamentals of time shared; and the reality of what you brought or took from another living existence. The reality of this day, in the majority of human life is: "I cannot hear/ I cannot see/ I cannot believe in love; because lust and heartache (I did, OR I didn't; get what I wanted) overrule your life". Life is not a game. Sex, is a decision that requires 2/ or it is nothing more than rape, or prostitution.