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Because it is necessary
The critical realities of human behavior, are fundamental to the construction of the human mind. Contrary to what is believed, we all begin with BASIC instructions/ and the freedom to elaborate and identify what is most important to us; from that moment on. Consequently, what is human behavior outside our common grounds of movements and bodily need. Is the descriptions we all must apply to ourselves for the purpose of happiness, hope, disciplines, or whatever it is that our own personal freedoms attest too: that we either desire or want for ourselves.
Desire means: “Within these human walls of my existence, a relationship has been created with the truth of my soul/ the destiny of my spirit/ and the place my heart finds peace”. These construct an identity, given to be “son or daughter” of our CREATOR. Because this relationship is with life, itself.
Want means: “Within this environment called human/ I DEMAND to have whatever I choose, to take whatever I like, to achieve and prove superior as my design to play god allows. Want is then the construction of limits and boundaries, that can be defeated with lies, manipulation, temptation, power, hate, or control. Pride elevates this dimension of time, by providing trophies, images, and the expectation of superiority.
While there is clear evidence in the animal kingdom as well as all other aspects of genetic traits passed from generation to generation. It is still clear, that human beings are at least able to choose directly for themselves; regardless of the genetic predisposition. It is also clear, that child endangerment in the mind of a child that does not feel clearly accepted and fully an honored family member; thereby being secured. Shall in fact take on the traits of those members which threaten him or her more; as a defense strategy against be abandoned. “Alike members/ are less likely to be abandoned than others”. That is a genetic predisposition.
Set apart from these particular influences, we do come to relationship building, in the finite terms of growing up. A reality of learning how best to get along with the others, expands until you are accepted or denied. Accepted means, for the majority: NOW you shall abandon the others we abandon; or you will be disowned as well. Either with us, or against us/ pick a side. The end results of this framework of dividing up humanity, by measuring each other within the accompanied image of whatever “we the leaders decide”. Has consequences. Those consequences as are seen throughout human time, at every age is fundamentally: “I have been treated UNFAIRLY”. The result of that is the elevation of “a little voice inside”/ which then guides you into the various elements of “what I should have done instead”.
This little voice; uses whatever has been learned, heard, seen, or other from the past; asks directly what you want instead of what you got. And raises the consequence of living to “wait until the next time”. Revenge and hate begin here, but it must be strengthened before it is dangerous.
Summed up for literacy/ rather than structural: The foundation of all inappropriate behaviors/ all violent behaviors/ and most abusive behaviors: ARE FOUND in the “little voice” inside which directs you into decisions that are predetermined, and as a consequence NOT generally relative to the situation at hand for most. Which means: some simply react/ only to then discover what they actually did too late. While others sink into hate, and believe that now they actually did become god to themselves, and did do exactly what they should have done. While others become lost and fearful to disobey the little voice inside/ because it has become an image of greater power than themselves. While others simply refuse, and turn away to make decisions that are not based upon “the little voice”.
The clear choice for better is: DON’T ALLOW, “a little voice” to take over your life/ instead of redesigning “what you should have done in a particular situation”. Rely instead upon what you did do/ analyze it for honesty/ and choose for life, and a better tomorrow. A better tomorrow does NOT include the people, or their methods, who tried to ruin your day today. Or more simply: don’t predetermine your reaction. Instead of action and reaction, learn to think.